Hi i am shiva , i am loving a girl for past two years but my family rejects our love due to some astrology pro?

hi i am shiva , i am loving a girl for past two years but my family rejects our love due to some astrology problem,astrologer says i am having kalthura dosham if i marry her ill get divorced nu so whats the remedies for us i born on 19-10-1983 his dob is 6-10-1987 somebody says there is no need of astrology for love marriage nu which one is true wat to do to over come the astrology what to do to to live both a good and healthy family life with my girl